Guy 1: "hey man what'd you do this
weekend?"
Guy 2: "Shit you know, I went over
to Lisa's house and she let me hit."
*High Five*
Guy 1: "Nice! Atta boy!"
Girl 1: "Hey girl! What'd you do
Saturday night? I saw you leave the bar with Bill again."
Girl 2: "Yeah we went back to my
place and well... you know."
*Screams, Hug*
Girl 1: "Oh my gosh girl
finally!"
Random Person: "How many people
have you guys been with?"
Guy 1: "Fifteen."
Random Person: "Nice! You're a
pimp man!"
Girl 1: "Same here!"
*Disgusted looks*
Random Person and guy 1:
"Slut!"
I
would like to start by saying if anyone disagrees with me that these are
typical conversations; go sit in the Smaug or somewhere on a college campus and
listen to these conversations. I have been part of many myself. A lot of men
honestly believe that the more women they sleep with the better and the more
men a woman has slept with, the more of a slut she is. Also, men believe that
men are more dateable the more women they have been with, and the exact
opposite for women.
Is it
true that the more women men have sex with the more other women want to date
them? I feel the opposite about that statement but a couple of my guy friends
think that it’s true. One of my guys friends said that the more women guys have
been with makes them more experienced talking to women and that’s what makes
them so smooth. He says that women don't care how many other women their man
has been with. He also stated that women don't respect themselves if they get
with multiple people but for guys it's okay because they get lonely.
As you
can imagine I was shocked while sitting in this conversation and was a little
offended. What makes this acceptable for men and not for women? It's not that
I'm advocating for having many sexual partners but this still isn't a fair
argument. To me, it is very unattractive when men have been with an abundance
of women. The worst thing is when they are proud of it. A lot of it has to do
with how they were raised but society is responsible for the majority of this
argument. Male music artists sing or rap about how many women they've been with
and what they do to them. On the other end of the spectrum, female music
artists sing about love and their special somebody (with the exception of Nicki
Minaj and a few select others).
The following link is a website in which men explain why “women
are sluts” as if they have the right of deciding:
This link proved to be interesting to me. It is talking
about the same concept that I did and gives a little more insight:
